You are stumped to figure that “thing” out.
Should I leave my job?
What should I do next?
Should I leave him?
Should I start that business?
When we think about it as a question, we spin in indecision. When we think about it as an opportunity it changes EVERYTHING.
What if instead of looking at it as “I have to” you looked at it as “I get to.”
I get to decide about my job. I have a choice.
I get to do that next.
I get to stay or go.
I get to start my future.
Do you want to “have” to do something or do you want to “get” to do something?
It is your choice.
It all is how you look at it.
How are you going to look at it?
