I am not tooting the horn for my husband (although in a way I am biased).
He is always so composed, he shows the world how unflappable he is, even keeled, like 99% of the time he is not bothered by the politics, other people’s thoughts, and he certainly does not give a shit about pleasing others.
Oh how many times I have wished that I was made that way.
I feel deeply, I get angry quickly, I see injustice and want to make it right.
My emotions are often my guide and they always will be, but we all have so much to learn about how to utilize our emotions as the GPS in our life.
We can all learn a lot from my husband — sure, perhaps he could “feel” his emotions more but this post is not about that.
His GPS means he does not spin out of control.
He does not let other’s views sway him.
He does not live to please others.
How often do we let our emotions cause us to react and then do something we regret later? Or we do not show up as the person we are and want to be?
What if we all took more time to pause, to listen to ourselves and others and react less?
I just asked him and he says, “Ego-free, fact-based, true-to-yourself, right-intentioned, empathetic decision-making can guide you in a pretty decent direction.”
If you want to hone in on how to be proactive rather than reactive with your emotions, sign up for a free consult call. I can show you the steps you can take to reset your GPS.
