Often we are right where we are because of all the small and compounding choices we have made year over year.
But we are also where we are from all the circumstances beyond our control — our gender, race, economic means, catastrophic events, health issues and so much more that may have held us back from our dreams that have not happened.
There is another impactful reason we are where we are in our lives.
Our thoughts.
Our thoughts over time become beliefs, grudges, and wings. However you want to look at it.
If our focus is only on the things we do not have in our life, or all the things that never happened — then we fill up all the space and we do not focus on all the things that can happen.
So instead of thinking: “How did I get here?” — how about thinking “I am going to go there.”
We have full control of what we decide to focus on, the direction we are heading, and if we believe it is going to be better than we could have ever imagined — then it will be.
Where are you going?
